Out with the Old, In with the New

Every year on April 30th, Sweden welcomes springtime by celebrating Valborg. In communities all over Sweden, Valborg is celebrated with speeches, choirs singing songs about spring and a huge bonfire. May 1st is a national holiday (the equivalent to America’s Labor Day) so partying following the bonfire can go late into the night.

Ready for the bonfire!

Ready for the bonfire!

Last Wednesday night, we went to a nearby park to celebrate my first Valborg. There were so many people! It started off with a woman giving a speech (Christopher kindly translated) about the park and the community (the park is getting toilets!) and the origins of Valborg. She said it was tradition the Swedes adopted from the Germans hundreds of years ago. Next, the choir sang a few songs and another man gave a lengthy speech. Finally, they lit the fire! From the pile of branches and leaves that were gathered from the park, I assumed it would be an average sized fire but Google Image told me otherwise. I have no idea how a controlled fire became as large as it did as quickly as it did, but it was awesome!

In no time at all, a pile of sticks became a humongous bonfire

In no time at all, a pile of sticks became an enormous bonfire

After we got home, I wanted to do some more research on the origins of Valborg because I’m a huge nerd at heart. Of course, there are conflicting stories. Some sources say Valborg predates any German holiday and was actually derived from Viking fertility celebrations and the bonfires were used to scare off witches and evil spirits. A more practical use of the fire was also to scare of predators as livestock were let out to graze.

However, the German roots are quite prevalent in everything I read. According to German folklore, Walpurgisnacht was believed to be a night when witches gathered at Brocken, the highest peak in the Harz Mountains (A German tradition of sorcerers and witches meeting on May Day were recorded during the 15th through 17th centuries). Alas, the day was Christianized and named after the eve of the feast day of St. Walpurga, an 8th-century abbess in Germany. Regardless of the actual origins, it was so cool to participate in a Swedish tradition knowing that people have celebrated in a similar way for hundreds of years.

If only I had S'mores supplies...

If only I had s’mores supplies…

The welcoming of spring in Sweden at the conclusion of April was somewhat symbolic for me. April was full of transitions for me; the longest and the shortest month ever! It seems like years ago, but I began April living with one of my closest friends and attending a Bastille concert with some other wonderful friends in Minneapolis. I drove over 800 miles with my mom back to Ohio and spent some time quality time with friends and family, even my sister in Boston. Finally, I moved to Sweden to be with my wonderful Christopher and time really started to fly. I do miss my friends and family (and Chipotle), but I’m having an amazing time and embracing the change!

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Valborg at Ramlösa Brunnspark

 

A Day in Denmark

Last Saturday, Christopher and I took a day trip to Helsingborg’s sister city in Denmark, Helsingør. We boarded the ferry and 20 minutes and two Danish sausages later, we were in Denmark! I remember thinking how cool it was that I could drive through three states in a couple of hours when I lived on the East Coast for two summers during college. I can hardly wrap my mind around being in another country in 20 minutes. On top of that, I didn’t need to show my passport to anyone. The concept that I could travel freely and not prove who I am and that I’m allowed to be in this particular country confounded me.

View of Helsingborg from the ferry

View of Helsingborg from the ferry

Helsingør, Denmark

Helsingør, Denmark

 

 

 

Helsingør is a very cute little town with old buildings and cobblestone streets. Christopher told me Helsingør was also full of cheese shops and it did not disappoint! You don’t need to know me well to know that I love cheese. As a cheese connoisseur, these shops were like walking into a dream. There were wheels of cheese as big as tables! There were also several different kinds of flavored gouda, including pesto gouda. It was a horrific green color but I bet it tasted pretty amazing.

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Checking out Helsingør!

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Ferry station

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Such a cute town!

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Shopping street

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Cobblestone streets

 

CHEESE!!!

CHEESE!!!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

We also checked out Kronborg Castle. Besides my love for old buildings and medieval towns, I really love going to palaces, castles and fortresses. Last summer, I toured the Royal Palace in Stockholm and Akershus Fortress in Oslo, as well as did some site-seeing on the grounds of the Royal Palace in Oslo. Of course, I couldn’t wait to add another castle to the list!

Since I can’t read Danish, here is a brief history of Kronborg Castle courtesy of Wikipedia. The castle was built by King Eric VII and dates back to the 1420s. For all you history buffs out there, that is before Columbus ‘discovered’ the Americas. The castle, along with Kärnan fortress on the Swedish side of Øresund sound, controlled the entrance of the Baltic Sea. Over the last several hundred years, it was remodeled, burnt down and rebuilt by various kings and then became army barracks. After the army left the castle, it was renovated and opened to the public so people like me can wander around and be excited about really old stuff!

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Entrance of Kronborg Castle

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Kronborg Castle

 

 

 

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When small became smaller…

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So many swans in the land of Hans Christian Andersen

 

 

 

 

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Tower at Kronborg Castle

Welcome to Sweden!

Upon arrival in Copenhagen, I gathered my bags (one hiking backpack, one large suitcase, and my carry-on- impressive!) and wandered like a zombie into a giant crowd behind barricades on either side waving tiny Danish flags. I thought to myself, oh crap, how am I ever going to find Christopher with all these people? And then suddenly, he was right beside me! He explained he had simply jumped the barricade as soon as he saw me. Seriously, he is the best!

We spent the evening watching the first four episodes of Welcome to Sweden, which by the way, is hilarious and will be premiering in the U.S. on July 10th on NBC. Greg Poehler’s character is even from Ohio! The show is very accurate with all the steps one must take to emigrate to Sweden and it highlights the cultural differences, which make for some pretty awkward moments for Greg’s character. I think every two minutes I would think to myself, I’m finally here too! This is my life now!

On Monday morning, we drove to Malmö so I could leave my finger prints and get my residency card. The employees there allowed me to be measured while I was wearing my boots. In Sweden, I’m 161 cm tall. That’s a little taller than 5’3″, the tallest I’ve ever been in my life! I knew I loved this country.

That evening, Christopher and I met his parents and sister, Johanna, for dinner. It was so great to meet them since we had only previously Skyped a handful of times. They are all so nice and welcoming and we had a wonderful dinner. I also learned that there is no such thing as a doggie bag in Sweden. If you don’t finish your dinner, you don’t get a box to take the rest home. You have to make sure your eyes aren’t bigger than your stomach!

Tuesday was Christopher’s birthday and he had no idea what I had in store! We started the day with an “American” breakfast of bacon and eggs over easy. Luckily, it was a beautiful day and we had a picnic lunch at a nearby park.

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We spent the afternoon having a fika (Swedish coffee break) at his parents house and then we got ready for dinner at a fondue restaurant. Johanna helped me pick out the restaurant and made reservations for me so I could surprise Christopher. It’s almost impossible to surprise him so he had already figured out where we were going for our picnic and the restaurant his sister suggested for dinner. It really was the perfect day!

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On Wednesday, we went to Ikea to get a couple chairs and a table for our balcony. Christopher had found a nice patio set within our budget that was in stock at the closest store. We spent awhile time looking at all the home scenes in the store. We found our balcony set on display and decided the table was too small, but that didn’t prevent us from buying  a lot of other random stuff. We left without the items we planned on buying, but I now have a great nightstand that Christopher built! Turns out, building Ikea furniture is just as frustrating no matter what country you’re in.

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Christopher’s nickname and this lamp are the same!

Friday was Christopher’s last day off before returning to work so we wanted to spend some quality time together. We went to the beach, which is within walking distance of our apartment. I thought living close to the lakes in Minneapolis was a treat, but oh my, this is amazing! You know where to find me pretty much every weekend this summer!

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View of Råå Harbor from the end of the pier

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Råå Beach

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Christopher on the beach!

Taking a dip in the water

Taking a dip in the water

 

 

This is my "Hurry up and take the picture, the water is freezing!" face

This is my “Hurry up and take the picture, the water is freezing!” face

Råå Harbor

Råå Harbor

Surprise! Now let’s eat.

I’ve been in Sweden a little more than a week now, but I just have to share a little surprise I had planned for my sister, Erin, before my departure.

Before I received my decision regarding my visa, I had been conspiring with Erin’s boyfriend, John, and her roommate, Jess, to surprise her with a visit. I couldn’t possibly leave the country without seeing my little sister! We discussed dates and whether or not she should take some time off work until we decided that I would already be at her apartment when she got home from work. As soon as my visa was approved, I booked a flight to Boston and then another flight the following day to Copenhagen. As John calls it, Operation Sibling Surprise had been set in motion!

After spending the afternoon with my friend Lauren, I went to Erin’s apartment to wait for what felt like an eternity. I don’t know why, but I was so anxious and nervous for her reaction and if I had successfully kept this visit a secret. Jess was kind enough to take a video of Erin arriving to the apartment:

After the shock wore off, we got ready for dinner. John, Jess, Erin and I went to a new restaurant called Ward 8 that Erin had been wanting to try for awhile. About 30 minutes after dinner, Jess suggested ‘second dinner’ at a nearby pizzeria called Regina’s. As you can see, it was a really great idea.

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The next day, Erin and I went on a veritable food tour of Boston. Yes, we walked around and saw the sights but mostly we ate. Since it was my last day in the U.S., we were able to justify pretty much any indulgence. When was the next time I was going to have raw oysters and clams?? I was only moving to a city right next to the ocean for heaven’s sake!

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Or how about cannoli from Modern Pastry? We’ll take two.

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By dinner time, I was sure I would never be hungry again for the rest of my life. So we did the most American thing we could do; we went to a family style Italian restaurant. After about two bites, I gave up. The pasta had won. And while the overstuffed feeling was thankfully temporary, all the memories of spending time with Erin will last a lifetime!

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Go Hardwell or Go Home!

After nearly a week of touring Sweden and Norway, it was time to fly to Brussels for the main event. Just getting out of Norway was an adventure in itself, but I finally made it! I successfully navigated my way through the streets of Brussels to meet a woman I had never met before who purchased our tickets. I protected that box full of wristbands like my life depended upon it until I made it to our hotel in Antwerp.

 
I couldn’t get ready fast enough on the first day of the festival and after what seemed like hours on the shuttle, we finally arrived. I almost didn’t know what to do with myself I was so excited! Walking into Tomorrowland was like entering an alternate reality. It was exactly how I imagined it would be but it also felt completely new. No words can fully describe the emotional response each and every one of us had upon entering.
 
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My friends and I made our way to the mainstage and found our spot where we remained for the rest of the weekend. There was a group of Swedes nearby and a couple of the guys came up to us and we all started chatting. I remember this one guy in particular, Christopher, with a CH and not a K. He had Go Hardwell or Go Home written on his arm and he was so excited for his set later that day. Time was not a real entity at Tomorrowland, so I have no idea how long he and I talked. Before my friends and I went to get dinner, Christopher gave me his name and I recorded it in the notes on my phone so I could find him on Facebook later. I told him we would come back to the same spot as soon as we were done eating. When we returned, the Swedes were gone. I never saw him again.
 
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The rest of the weekend was a surreal, almost magical, experience and it ended too soon. I hardly wanted to go to Paris and continue the trip. How could anything ever top the weekend I just had? Tomorrowland was everything I thought it would be and so much more. 
 
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While we met a lot of people from all over the world, I never forgot about that group of Swedes, especially the one who loved Hardwell so much. Little did I know, I would see Christopher again. Five months after first meeting at Tomorrowland, we were in a relationship.
 
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Tomorrowland or Bust!

Until last summer, I had never traveled outside of North America. Now, I’m only days away from a one way flight to Copenhagen. How could I, only 8 months after returning from Europe, be moving there? Simple. I fell in love.

Let’s start at the beginning, shall we? A few months after I moved to Minneapolis in 2011, a college friend of mine who was living in Spain posted a video on my Facebook wall urging my roommate and I to come to a music festival in Europe the following summer. This was the first I had ever even heard of Tomorrowland, an electronic music festival in Belgium. In all honesty, I didn’t even watch the video but that didn’t stop me from giving a generic affirmative response. But was I really going to go to another continent for a music festival? Probably not.

Shortly after I moved into my first solo apartment, I found myself unpacking and getting bored watching Super Bowl XLVI. So I scrolled down my wall and found that months old post. I’ll never forget that moment; the first time I watched the Tomorrowland 2011 After Movie. I forgot the rest of the Super Bowl and watched the video again and again. Any free moment I had over the next few weeks was spent watching that after movie. My mind was made up. I would go to this festival and nothing would stand in my way.

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I realized pretty early on that the 2012 edition wouldn’t be possible because I couldn’t convince anyone to go in that short of a time period and I had no money. So I set my sights on Tomorrowland 2013. I started saving every dollar and recruiting other people to join me (my mom was not going to let me go to a rave on another continent by myself no matter how independent I am). I began planning an extensive Eurotrip entirely around the festival; 5 countries in 18 days. I had traveled by myself/with friends before, but never to another country so this would be an entirely new experience.

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By Fall 2012, my friend Shannon and a couple of her friends were set to go to Tomorrowland with me while my friend Yun and I were going to travel Europe for the rest of the trip. My flight was booked using airline points (free flight woohoo!!) and I was saving enough money thanks to my elaborate Excel budget sheet. I only had to figure out how to get tickets to the most popular EDM festival in the world that sold out in mere minutes the year before. But I wasn’t worried; I had a plan.

Yun had a good friend living in Amsterdam, Xavier, who was friends with some Belgians. We skyped a couple of times and arranged for some of his friends to register to get the special Belgian-only presale tickets. I also registered and would have a week to figure out a way to get tickets if my Belgian pre-sale plan didn’t work. After hours of being online trying to get tickets, I heard from X that his friend was able to get them!! Almost a year to the day after this all started, I finally had my tickets to Tomorrowland 2013!!

On July 18th, I boarded a plane to Stockholm to begin my long awaited European adventure. I can’t begin to describe the overwhelming emotions when I first climbed the stairs from the tunnelbana to Birger Jarlsgatan. It was quite literally a dream come true.

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